Breastfeeding Tips For New Moms (From Someone Who Didn’t Think She’d Do It)
Having your first baby and not sure if you want to breastfeed? Let’s get one thing clear right away: Fed is best. Whether it’s formula, breastmilk, or both—if your baby is fed, you’re doing a great job.
And here’s your first rule of motherhood: stop caring what other people think.
I’m not here to tell you what’s best for your baby—you know your situation better than anyone. What I can do is share my personal story and some helpful tips in case you’re thinking about trying breastfeeding.
My Breastfeeding Journey (Spoiler: I Loved It)
When I was pregnant, I was totally against breastfeeding. Just the idea of it made me uncomfortable. But then the formula shortage happened—and honestly, it scared me. What if we couldn’t find formula when we needed it? And the cost? With unpaid maternity leave and no WIC assistance, I knew every dollar would count.
So I thought, What if I just exclusively pump? That way I could give my baby natural, healthy (and free!) milk while avoiding nursing. But as I planned out the logistics of pumping, cleaning, storing, and feeding—I thought, Why not just try nursing first?
I laugh at myself now! My daughter is 20 months old and still nurses at night. What started as a backup plan became one of the most meaningful parts of my motherhood experience.
I hated pumping (so much work!), but I grew to love breastfeeding. It became a time of bonding and comfort for both of us. I even planned to wean her at a year—but honestly, we’re both still happy, and it’s working for us. So why stop?
If You Want to Try Breastfeeding, Here Are My Best Tips:
1. See a Lactation Consultant—Seriously!
The hospital where I delivered had 24/7 lactation consultants, and I called them in at least twice a day. In the beginning, my baby was biting instead of sucking, and they helped us get on the right track quickly. They were lifesavers and made a huge difference in those early days.
2. Ask for Help
Whether it’s a nurse, a mom friend, or an online support group—don’t be afraid to ask questions. Breastfeeding is a learning process for both you and your baby.
3. Know It’s Okay to Change Your Mind
You can start breastfeeding and switch to formula. You can do both. You can start with pumping and then try nursing. There’s no “one right way.” Do what feels good for you and your baby.
4. Don’t Stress the Timeline
Some babies nurse for a few weeks, others for years. If it’s working and you’re both happy, go with it. If it stops working, that’s okay too.
5. Fed Is Always Best
Repeat it with me: FED. IS. BEST. Don’t let anyone make you feel guilty for doing what works best for your family.
Breastfeeding isn’t easy for everyone, and it’s not the right choice for everyone. But if you’re curious about trying it, I hope my story encourages you to give it a shot—and to trust yourself no matter what you decide.
Have questions or want to share your own experience? Let me know in the comments—I’d love to hear from you!
